DON’T SPEND TOO MUCH TIME WORRYING ABOUT THE HIGHLIGHT REEL.Posted: March 15, 2019 Filed under: #writings Comments Off on DON’T SPEND TOO MUCH TIME WORRYING ABOUT THE HIGHLIGHT REEL.
[More thoughts on The Ignored Series.]
DON’T SPEND TOO MUCH TIME WORRYING ABOUT THE HIGHLIGHT REEL.
We like to think that it’s our life’s highlights (our “highlight reel”, as it were) that make us happy.
That time we walked the red carpet. That time we stood in front of the Grand Canyon and took a selfie. That time we had dinner with the famous person. That time we gave a big talk at SXSW.
But it turns out it’s the little stuff we do daily that actually makes us happy long term.
That first cup of coffee in the morning. That bagel every Saturday morning on Lexington Avenue and 41st. That last whisky before bedtime. That half hour of reading before lights out. Sunday dinner after church. Tennis with Marcio after work on Tuesdays. Hanging out at the comic book shop with Phil. Walking around downtown taking photographs.
The highlight reel is all about what motivates you extrinsically. And the little stuff is about what motivates you intrinsically.
And “intrinsic” is where actually happiness- the kind that lasts- is found. Sure, you can build the “extrinsic” stuff into the mix as you go along, but to sacrifice the former just to have a wee bit more of the latter is a fool’s errand.
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